{"id":3638,"date":"2016-10-24T09:16:19","date_gmt":"2016-10-24T09:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/2016\/10\/24\/healthy-marriage-is-more-than-just-a-ceremony\/"},"modified":"2016-10-24T09:16:19","modified_gmt":"2016-10-24T09:16:19","slug":"healthy-marriage-is-more-than-just-a-ceremony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/healthy-marriage-is-more-than-just-a-ceremony\/","title":{"rendered":"Healthy marriage is more than just a ceremony"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>24 October 2016 | Nicosia, Cyprus [Marica Mirilov]<\/p>\n<p>The first weekend in October saw twenty couples in Nicosia, Cyprus benefiting from a free, unforgettable three-day marriage enrichment programme. It was hosted by the local Seventh-day Adventist church.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" alignright size-full wp-image-3626\" src=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen.jpg\" alt=\"\" height=\"250\" style=\"margin-left: 10px; float: right;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen.jpg 1136w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-264x300.jpg 264w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-902x1024.jpg 902w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-768x871.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-350x397.jpg 350w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-700x794.jpg 700w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-900x1021.jpg 900w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-1100x1248.jpg 1100w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-retreat-Bernie-Karen-560x635.jpg 560w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1136px) 100vw, 1136px\" \/><\/a>The engaging seminars were presented by experienced and inspirational family trainers Karen Holford, Trans-European Family Ministries director and the author of several books in the field; and her husband, Pastor Bernie Holford. Seminars covered reflected on the Seasons of Marriage, Building Healthy Relationships, Creative Conflicts, and Fun and Friendship in Marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Silvana and Andrew de Jesus, one of the youngest attendee couples found encouragement in realising that the disillusionment stage in marriage is only a phase that can be passed through, moving to more exciting stages of discovery and depth in marital relationship.<\/p>\n<p>The most popular practical tip of the programme was 10 x 1 minute\/per day connecting. The couples were challenged to make lists of 10 creative ways to consciously connect with their spouses each day. Such a practical suggestion was fully embraced by the couples since it fits in with the stressful and time limited modern lifestyle. Once the participants started putting down ideas such as a massage, telling a joke, sending a love message, taking a selfie together, or simply holding hands, they realised that this is not an obligation but rather a fun way for people who love each other to connect.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" alignleft size-full wp-image-3630\" src=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" style=\"margin-right: 10px; float: left;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group.jpg 1904w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-300x172.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-1024x588.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-768x441.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-1536x883.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-350x201.jpg 350w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-700x402.jpg 700w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-900x517.jpg 900w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-1100x632.jpg 1100w, https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/images_news-2_Cyrprus-group-560x322.jpg 560w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1904px) 100vw, 1904px\" \/><\/a>Cyprus reflects the rest of Europe with its decreasing marriage rate and an increasing number of divorces. Dr Branislav Mirilov, president of the Seventh-day Adventist Church in Cyprus, expressed the need for regular programmes such as this. \u201cHealthy marital relationships equal loving families, and lead to a more stable society. The church must play a significant role in nourishing relationships. It is far more than just performing marriage ceremonies.\u201d [<em>ted<\/em>NEWS]<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>ted<\/em>NEWS Staff: Victor Hulbert, director; Esti Pujic, editor<br \/>119 St Peter&#8217;s Street, St Albans, Herts, AL1 3EY, England<br \/>E-mail:&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:tedNEWS@ted.adventist.org?subject=tedNEWS\">tednews@ted.adventist.org<\/a><br \/>Website: www.ted.adventist.org<br \/><em>ted<\/em>NEWS is an information bulletin issued by the communication department of the Seventh-day Adventist Church in the Trans-European Division.<br \/>You are free to re-print any portion of the bulletin without need for special permission. 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