Love the Highest Value<\/strong><\/p>\n It isn\u2019t rocket science to work out the top-placed value. It is love \u2013 simply because \u2018God is love\u2019 (1 John 4:8). (1) You could say, \u2018Love rules!\u2019<\/p>\n But this also makes love the most difficult value to aspire to \u2013 it has a perfect model to emulate. All other values or fruits of the Spirit are relative. How much joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control are you supposed to have? Answer: as much as you can. But love that is any less than the perfect Father-type love isn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n The difficult part is understanding what love looks like or means.<\/p>\n We glibly read that God \u2018so loved the world\u2019. But does that include drug pushers, alcoholics, the homeless, the LGBTQ community, cross-dressers, child abusers, terrorists, zealots, prostitutes, tax collectors and other people we might be prone to regard as detestable sinners? Strong\u2019s Concordance<\/em>, in its definition of the Bible word \u2018sinners\u2019, provides associated words to help the reader grasp its meaning. It includes words like depraved<\/em> and detestable<\/em>. The revulsion that can arise within us towards those whom we might class as \u2018detestable sinners\u2019 could influence how we define and understand the love that is to be valued. Passages such as Psalm 139:21, 22 may give a twist to the meaning of \u2018love\u2019 which many might find uncomfortable.<\/p>\n In His sermon on the values of the Kingdom of Heaven, Jesus seeks to counter a misguided understanding of what love is. It is not, He says, love towards your friends and hatred to your enemies; nor is it love towards those who love you, or even the love shared within the family; as He says, even the tax collectors (Matt. 5:46) and Gentiles (vs. 47) do the same. Rather, it is to love the way the Father loves \u2013 indiscriminately<\/strong> (vs. 45).<\/p>\n The passage reads: \u2018You have heard that it was said, \u201cYou shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy. But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. (Matt. 5:43-48.)<\/p>\n These verses bring this section of the Sermon on the Mount to a climax. They call the believer to value the standards or characteristics of the Kingdom of Heaven.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s now explore some of the ingredients that need to be understood as we progress to Jesus\u2019 definition of love.<\/p>\n Read Matthew 5:3-12.<\/em><\/p>\n Firstly, this love requires repentance. <\/strong><\/p>\n According to Matthew 4:17, \u2018From that time Jesus began to preach, saying, \u201cRepent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.<\/em>\u201d\u2019<\/p>\n When Jesus called His disciples, He did not simply tell them that being generally nice, and kind<\/em> is what love is. Nor did He suggest that the odd general adjustment of their lives and values so as to be in sync with the values of the Kingdom was what they needed. His message was, \u2018Repent\u2019 \u2013 turn around full circle because you are going the wrong way! Jesus is speaking to God-fearers! And to them He says, \u2018God\u2019s way is in contrast to all you know or think or have been taught! Repent!\u2019<\/p>\n In the sermon He underlines a radical reversal of their understanding of love by saying that \u2018love\u2019 is not the way they have been taught \u2013 \u2018You have heard that it was said . . .but. . .<\/em>.\u2019 See Matthew 5:21, 22, 27, 28, 31, 32, 33, 34, 38, 39, 43, 44, KJV.<\/p>\n Secondly, this love requires courage<\/strong>.<\/p>\n The benefits of being a citizen of that kingdom are included in the Beatitudes \u2013 we will be comforted, receive the earth, be satisfied, receive mercy, see God and be called sons of God. These are all part and parcel of receiving the Kingdom of Heaven. But we must be careful not to forget that the rewards are also virtues, and that they come at the cost of persecution! In other words, if you want to \u2018be sons of your Father who is in heaven\u2019<\/em> (vs. 45), courage will be necessary.<\/p>\n Does it not take courage at times to walk across the street or room to express love to someone despised by the rest of the group? This love, it seems, may require the courage to act contrary to the prevailing expectations or norms of the culture we find ourselves in (\u2018You have heard that it was said . . .\u2019<\/em>).<\/p>\n As you try to embed the Father\u2019s kind of love into your lifestyle, prayers for courage, rather than deliverance from difficult situations, may be the order of your day.<\/p>\n Read Matthew 5:17-20 and 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.<\/em><\/p>\n Thirdly, this love requires fulfilment. <\/strong><\/p>\n When meeting the argument, which Jesus ran into many times (Mark 3:1-6 and John 9:16), that caring for people with love and compassion acts contrary to the Law, He countered by pointing out that rather than negating the Law, the values of the Kingdom, rightly lived, fill the Law full of meaning.<\/p>\n The Father\u2019s love is not merely a matter of outward appearances \u2013 like that of the scribes and Pharisees \u2013 who exhibited their religion by saying and doing all the right things but with a critical attitude towards others that was not helpful. Instead of this, the Father\u2019s love fulfils the Law at a deeper level \u2013 inside our hearts (Matt. 5:20) \u2013 at the only place we really become a part of the Kingdom of Heaven.<\/p>\n The challenge is to ask yourself the question: \u2018How full is my life of this kind of love?\u2019<\/p>\n Read Matthew 5:23-45.<\/em><\/p>\n Fourthly, this love requires a form of aggression or assertiveness<\/strong>.<\/p>\n In the sermon (Matthew 5:23-45) there are several examples of the way the Father\u2019s kind of love operates. When you read these verses through, you encounter tough, brave, rugged, \u2018turn-your cheek\u2019, assertive love. It is not just love when it suits us or to those we like or love, or who reciprocate. It is not soft, submissive, doormat love . . . it is principled love. It is the kind that says resolutely: \u2018You seek to crush me with your oppression and humiliation, but I will fight you with love!\u2019 This love is proactive \u2013 assertive.<\/p>\n Someone might argue that if we treat those who wish to harm us well \u2013 even while they are intent on doing evil (vs. 39) \u2013 we are in danger of showing complicity while permitting them to do their evil.<\/p>\n No! This love combats the evil, for it is precisely by loving them that we overcome those \u2018depraved\u2019 and \u2018detestable\u2019 sinners.<\/p>\n What if two men or two women or a pair of crossdressers or transgender people walked into church holding hands and then sat in church with their arms around each other \u2013 would that modify your \u2018love\u2019?<\/p>\n Would you want to straighten them out before showing them the depth of the Father\u2019s love?<\/p>\n No! We combat the wrong not by straightening them out, but by loving them!<\/p>\n Doesn\u2019t God\u2019s love come to us that way \u2013 even \u2018while we were still sinners\u2019<\/em> (Rom. 5:8) and \u2018while we were enemies\u2019<\/em> (Rom. 5:10)?<\/p>\n Read Matthew 5:43-48.<\/em><\/p>\n Fifthly, this love is excessive.<\/strong> In this passage, take note of how Jesus expands on the theme of letting your love \u2018exceed that of the scribes and Pharisees\u2019<\/em>.<\/p>\n Here Jesus challenges us to love better than \u2018those who love you\u2019<\/em>, better than the \u2018tax collectors do\u2019<\/em>, better than \u2018your brothers\u2019<\/em> do and better than \u2018the Gentiles do\u2019<\/em>. The model held up to us is the perfect love of \u2018your heavenly Father\u2019<\/em>.<\/p>\n How does He love? Indiscriminately: \u2018For he makes his sun rise<\/em> on the evil and on the<\/em> good and sends rain<\/em> on the just and on the<\/em> unjust.\u2019 <\/em>Yes, indiscriminately and excessively \u2013 like the woman who throws a party for a lost coin wherein the party cost more than the coin was worth! Like the father who runs out to meet his prodigal son and then kills not just an ordinary calf, but the fatted calf for him; or the shepherd who throws a party for a lost sheep he has found \u2013 ever heard of a shepherd doing that?<\/p>\n Here is the challenge to be creative \u2013 to think outside the box \u2013 to practise abundant, wasteful, indiscriminate, excessive love!<\/p>\n I learned of a lady in one of our churches who befriended a young woman who had begun attending services but could only afford to come in jeans and work clothes \u2013 it was all she had. The lady befriended the young woman and arranged to meet her in the local mall one day, where she took her to a store and invited her to choose any clothes she wanted so she could dress beautifully for church. When this was done they went to the cashier, where the lady kindly paid for it all! That\u2019s the Father\u2019s kind of excessive love.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Photos: Shutterstock<\/p>\n \u2018Love \u2013 the highest value\u2019<\/em>, reproduced with the kind permission of the author, is an extract from Values-led Lives<\/em>, available for purchase from the Stanborough Press @ \u00a35.95 + p&p through their on-line retail outlet LifeSource Christian Bookshop:<\/em><\/p>\n https:\/\/lifesourcebookshop.co.uk\/product\/values-led-lives\/<\/u><\/p>\n If you missed the new year interview with Daniel Duda about the strategic focus of the Trans-European Division, and how we \u2018Extend God\u2019s Love to the whole person\u2019, it can be viewed here:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Sermon-on-the-Mount-2-1-1024x576.jpg\")
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