{"id":1133,"date":"2018-05-03T12:44:05","date_gmt":"2018-05-03T12:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/sitenews\/2018\/05\/03\/healthy-relationships-evangelism-in-south-east-europe\/"},"modified":"2018-05-03T12:44:05","modified_gmt":"2018-05-03T12:44:05","slug":"healthy-relationships-evangelism-in-south-east-europe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/healthy-relationships-evangelism-in-south-east-europe\/","title":{"rendered":"Healthy Relationships evangelism in South East Europe"},"content":{"rendered":"

3 May 2018 | Belgrade, Serbia [Marija Trajkovska]<\/p>\n

Historically speaking, spring time is when kings and armies set out to start new wars and go on the offensive. Today one of our biggest wars involves the breakdown of marriage and relationships \u2013 something that is destroying people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

To tackle this issue the Family Ministries department of the South-East European Union [SEEUC] organised two spring evangelistic series specifically dealing with healthy marriage and family relationships. They invited Willie and Elaine Oliver from the World Headquarters of the Seventh-day Adventist Church to visit the cities of Ni\u0161, southern Serbia and Novi Sad, northern Serbia.<\/p>\n

\"Healthy<\/a>The main aim of the lectures held in the public halls, and seminars held in the local Adventist churches, was to prevent marital distress and so avoid separation and divorce.<\/p>\n

The Evangelistic series, \u2018Healthy Relationships\u2019, held 13 \u2013 17 April in the New City Hotel, Ni\u0161, started with a series of TV interviews with Willie Oliver. Mirko Perovi\u0107, a journalist with Kopernikus TV, asked questions on how to improve marriage and family relationships. <\/p>\n

Late\"Healthy<\/a>r in the day Svetlana Petrovi\u0107 invited Oliver to the family programme on Belle Amie TV. He told her, \u201cLove is not enough for having strong and happy marriages. A lot of patience, kindness, understanding, honesty and confidence are also essential\u2026 Very often marital distress is caused by opposite or unfulfilled expectations, so we have to learn how to deal with them.\u201d He noted, that while dating opposites attracts us, those opposites can repel us in marriage. However, he emphasised, \u201cthere is hope! We can learn how to be better husbands and wives and how to be even great husbands and wives.\u201d<\/p>\n

Petrovi\u0107, was so impressed by the practical advice, that she wrote a newspaper article<\/a> under the title \u2018Why Love is Not Enough\u2019, published in \u2018Ni\u0161ke vesti\u2019 two days later. Oliver returned to the Belle Amie station the following morning for a second opportunity to answer questions and promote the lecture series.<\/p>\n

T\"Healthy<\/a>he lectures themselves attracted up to 160 people, more than half of them non-members who attend the very popular Adventist Health Club in Ni\u0161. Others were completely new interests, discovering the Biblical message on marriage and family for the first time in their lives. <\/p>\n

Oliver also preached at the Ni\u0161 church, touching the lives of church members. His strong appeal at the end of the morning service moved dozens of young people to indicate a desire to surrender their hearts to God and to prepare for baptism.<\/p>\n

Continuing in the church, the marriage enrichment seminar \u201cStronger Marriages – Stronger Families and Churches\u201d, helped the participants to gain fresh insights into the secrets of strong, healthy and happy marriages and family relationships and to go home determined to improve and enriched their most intimate ties.<\/p>\n

Elaine Oliver then joined her husband Willie to repeat the series in Novi Sad, northern Serbia, using the amphitheatre of the SPENS Convention Centre, 19 \u2013 22 April.<\/p>\n

T\"Healthy<\/a>V was again an important part of the process, the Olivers appearing on the TV Kanal 9 where, in an hour-long interview, they shared about marriage and family values in Serbia, Europe and world-wide, helping the audience to get simple, practical and applicable instructions on healthier and happier marriages and family relationships. Due to audience interest, the programme was repeated on the following two days.<\/p>\n

Some 150 attendees came to the lecture series, including up to 80 non-members. Topics like \u201cWhat Everyone Should Know About Effective Communication\u201d, \u201cWhat Everyone Should Know About Solving Conflicts\u201d, \u201cWhat Everyone Should Know About Managing Stress and Enjoying Peace\u201d and What Everyone Should Know About Preventing Marriage Distress\u201d occupied everyone\u2019s attention and created interest in finding relevant solutions. Participants would surround the Olivers long after the meetings were finished, asking questions and looking for private advice.<\/p>\n

\"Healthy<\/a>A similar scenario happened at the end of the marriage enrichment seminar in the Novi Sad church hall on Sunday, 22 April. People were hungry for fresh insights, essential to help resolve marriage and family issues that are present even in the everyday life of Christian families.<\/p>\n

Translating the TV interviews, seminars and series, Marija Trajkovska, SEEUC Family Ministries director, says that, \u201cthese two spring series came at the right time and place, giving new hope and inspiring faith in better marriages and families.\u201d<\/p>\n

She noted that, \u201cThe greatest promise of success we can give people is from Philippians 4:13, \u2018I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me\u2019. Christ and only Christ, through His power, can make the marriages and families of Ni\u0161, Novi Sad and the whole SEEUC stronger, healthier and happier.\u201d<\/p>\n

Trajkovska continued with a follow-up series in Novi Sad on Wednesday, 25 April, speaking on \u2018Dare to Love, Even When You Disagree With Your Partner`s Opinion\u2019. [ted<\/em>NEWS]<\/p>\n

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3 May 2018 | Belgrade, Serbia [Marija Trajkovska]<\/p>\n

Historically speaking, spring time is when kings and armies set out to start new wars and go on the offensive. Today one of our biggest wars involves the breakdown of marriage and relationships \u2013 something that is destroying people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

To tackle this issue the Family Ministries department of the South-East European Union [SEEUC] organised two spring evangelistic series specifically dealing with healthy marriage and family relationships. They invited Willie and Elaine Oliver from the World Headquarters of the Seventh-day Adventist Church to visit the cities of Ni\u0161, southern Serbia and Novi Sad, northern Serbia.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1124,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1592,1572,1573,1574,7],"tags":[80,75,77,76,78,79],"class_list":["post-1133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bosnia-herzegovina-montenegro-north-macedonia-serbia","category-evangelism-mission","category-family-relationships","category-health-wellness","category-news","tag-healthy-relationships","tag-marriage","tag-novi-sad","tag-relationships","tag-serbia","tag-willie-and-elaine-oliver"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1133"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1133\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ted.adventist.org\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}